What have i accomplished in this seminar
Google ranking , wanting a big boat, the wheels in motion with my books, changed perception of Cindy, got that knowing isn’t knowing and doesn’t mean anything. That self and other analysing is a way to protect myself which is just a story. The only reality is being present.
Who am I being in the future?? Fit, trim and healthy. Alcohol free. Speaking 2 times a week. Confident, courageous. Have a big boat in the bay at black point. We don’t need to have fear of others. Being present with others and yourself is a gift you give yourself and others.
Acknowledge that you are having a breakdown and then be the possibility you are creating for yourself.
When you work on yourself you build muscle around what you want to achieve and how you want to achieve it. The story I have with myself about dominating google is that it is too competitive. When people have stories of what they can’t do it sounds silly!! What about our stories…?. They too are silly and just a story and it is not true!! We can live a life through possibility not through stories. This give you an opening to achieve something extraordinary.
I am the possibility of exercising once per day. To be free from the constraints of the past is being free. Complete is being free to be you in the present. What’s the process of being complete?? When something is incomplete we make it wrong. Give up that there is nothing wrong and that it is the way it is. What is incomplete.
What you know, what you don’t know, what you don’t know you don’t know.
Having unconditional love for yourself and others is one of the keys tour personal development. What sponsors are you creating to make a difference in the lives of others. How can you grip Being present and put it into your life.
It takes courage to make a commitment to develop Yourself and the people around you. How are you inspiring yourself to have breakthroughs?? Embrace yourself talk as not being you and. Integrity is personal power. Life is too short to dream about what is possible. Enrolling others in your possibility and it will keep your dreams alive!! There comes a time when the bud needs to blossom. If there is going to be a time why not that time be now. This is your time… Your time to blossom. Living a life of transformation.
So there’s a big difference between an authentic natural person with the X factor or professional speaker with the x factor and somebody that doesn’t engage isn’t authentic and in your words is up themselves is there a big difference, is there?
a huge difference really a huge difference and most people not say all people can tell and those people that up themselves will eventually just die on that seat but the people that are authentic really want to help other people really want to keep patting so and the the audience enjoy it I think they continue
David: Right so you you’re saying that’s somebody a speaker that’s got talent really learning how to market themselves so this so important?
Dianne: Well, not just market themselves but when they present anything to do their best yeah I suppose it’s cool marketing I don’t know I just feel that every single presentation does matter with you presenting to kindergarten or CEO’s of huge corporations just be natural do your best and be authentic
Okay, and in your view as somebody that knows a feet about putting talks together, what do you think of the attributes of a really top professional speaker?
Probably to be natural and to talk about their experiences genuine experiences and to be genuine you can I think a lot of people when they hear about speakers they can tell when are false and when they are not natural and I like to hear speaker that words just flow out and they just talk about experiences good or bad and probably what they wanted to do with themselves and the next couple of years yeah I think be natural is a good speaker
Okay Being natural and also would you say being authentic?
Well that’s what I’m more or less saying about what speaking is about what they’ve done and what they want to do yeah
David: that would be persuasive presentations
Dianne: I’m sorry it is persuasive presentation and she was so coaches people which she gets more pleasure at off coaching people and hoping them to present presentations so yeah and now she’s I think she’s one of the biggest achievements now coaching her 2 boys to stand up and deliver speeches in school which they do.
David; That’s fantastic so in relation to umm your speaking In toastmaster are you going much further with it?
Dianne: No , I’m not
David: And the reason for that?
I have other interest. I’m on the top of the reason that has an interest that does maybe 10 years and I think it’s ok what’s next so at the moment I’ve just tried sold my business sold my property and in 2000 and 13 I wake up and say okay what do I do now the moment I consider myself to be of long service sleeps and just relaxing but in 2000 13 I don’t know what I’ll do but I’m going to do something
David: And why didn’t you like it?
I hate telling people anything that they don’t want to hear and sometimes unfortunately some people don’t want to hear that there’s anything wrong with the way they speak
So did you enjoy the experience and what was the highlight for you?
I didn’t enjoy the experience of critiquing but I did enjoy toastmasters and I think the highlight for me was when we opened up our own toastmaster club, conspicuous corner and seeing people who couldn’t speak couldn’t even stand up and say two words end up going through the whole procedure of toastmasters and becoming really quite confident with speaking. That was great.
Yes we did the reason for that was we wanted to toastmasters club that wanted to do that wanted to get people the very insecure in speaking to nurture them to get up to the stage that they could speak about anything